摩登家庭第三季

我记得有人在人人上推荐这部剧的时候，一句话点评得很经典：笑点琐碎，一旦看进去却会无比喜欢。

这就是我心中的OS好嘛。

modern family 是绝对的治愈系，笑中含泪blah blah blah 的大家都懂的我就不废话了，只是突然想总结一下这部剧集教给我的几件比较重要的事情：——————我是忍不住就要打分割线的分割线——————————1 没有人是完美的，每个人都有每个人的缺点和个性，你无法改变他们，只有宽容和理解。

比如，对于富家出身的米奇和农家长大的Cam，这么有爱的一对，各有各自偏执的一面，对方都会因为彼此的偏执面抓狂，甚至还要幼稚到捉弄对方，然后试图通过这种方式看吧你那个性是有多么不好，你快给我改掉。

这时这部剧优秀的一面就出现了，我们都以为他们会痛改前非，但实际上还是一如既往，控制欲极强的Claire，二逼气息无所不在的Dumphy，还有各种各样鲜明的角色，他们的性格依旧，但是你会发现在这个大家庭里面，他们都会因为爱而被理解被体谅被包容。

我以后也会这样对待我的家人我的朋友，一切我所珍视的人。

2 这个世界上每个人都是不同的。

在这个混合大家庭里，你会发现从老到小，每一个都是各有各的性格，特色，突然间我就明白自己有时候希望周围的人都如自己想的一样这个想法究竟有多么的荒谬。

一个家庭中的人都各有不同，又何谈其他人呢，也正是因为这样，这个世界，生活才那么精彩，百花齐放。

3 一旦生活恢复平静，我必倍加珍惜。

4 我们需要帮助，正是因为互相帮助，我们才能走得更远。

5 家人之间可以争吵，可以发脾气，但请务必以一顿温馨的没事与温暖的笑容结束，还有就是让矛盾永远的过去。

———————————我是未完待续的分割线—————————标题是10 things，但是我只写了5 things，因为这部剧还要继续下去，生活还要继续下去，留下未完待续的空白，等到又有了新的体会，我再以补充。

加油，剧里的人们，加油，自己。

06（保护与面对同龄女的自我认可） 08（big one Gloria mommy Own charms He between jay phil ） 09（Haley power Dreamers realists lovers🎃✨） 10（🌟🥹everyday December 16th） 14（so nice Danielle Spanish drama Laugh Betty Luke ） 15（funny adults moment） 16（cool dad,never blew it,doll grows,trust ） 17（period ） 21（journey with u young u and old） 23（draw in reality ） 24（just the same love ballet lily family moments wonderful age for everyone ）

S3E21 本集不是特别好笑。

但Phil 的跑车代表了在忙碌的生活中减压。

S3E22 客气的迪士尼全家游。

Phil和Luke的funny relationship ，Luke 这个孩子虽然有点weird但其实很善解人意。

Jay对Gloria的贴心。

I am in pain just thinking about you r in pain 。

S3E24 Jay 真的是一个很棒的家长，虽然平时不太热络，但关键时刻总是很鼓励人心。

他和lily起舞的那段让人泪目。

Luke小宝贝真是古灵精怪，太可爱了，爸妈的贴心小棉袄。

典型肥皂剧，特别适合一边做点无关紧要的事一边看。

各种生活琐碎集合成一起就恰到好处的发生神奇作用。

全家似乎都患有不同层度的神经质，里面每个人都是一只偏执的小魔怪。

编剧可以让这家人在准备个圣诞节的时候把所有倒霉的事都凑合到了一起，把所有想象中设计的美好情景都被现实给毁得各种哭笑不得。

最后再补多一枪，把温馨注入，一切又回到当初的美好。

生活并不是你设计情景里的那么完美，但依然可以欢乐无比。

我特别喜欢美剧里面把人物刻画得有各种缺点角色，我倒觉得这样更加真实和完美。

这可能也是我喜欢这部剧的主要原因。

我喜欢你并不是你完美无缺，而是我明知道你有各种缺点我还依然爱你。

里面充满各种生活的琐碎。

为了一个碗，为了双高跟鞋，为了一句口头禅，反正你意想不到的都可以引发一场小规模争吵。

这就是真实的生活场景。

笑中有泪的剧情，让人无法抵抗。

最让我感动的是Luke对已经经不起过山车狂摔的Dumphy安慰了句，没事，就算你以后坐轮椅，我也会用最快速度推你，让你依然能感受这样刺激。

我也要感叹句，要怎么样才能有luke这样可爱的儿子！

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#06Jay: We all struggle with limitations... Some we're willing to accept... And some we're not. It's never too late to grow in life. #07Manny: He's learning to dance, but he's just to tense.Jay: It's not working out.Manny: 'cause you're not letting go.Jay: I'm trying. Don't you think I want to be all smooth and make your mom happy out there? But I just can't do it, that's all.Manny: Jay, I'm not giving up on you.Mitchell: Okay. Hey, Manny, would you give us a second? Thanks. Dad, look, I-I know this is weird, but you and I are a lot alike. We're self-conscious, okay? So, um, here. Just... Jay: The hell is this?Mitchell: It's just something that some people take at clubs to, you know, loosen up.Jay: You take this?Mitchell: A gay man who hates dancing lives in a sad and lonely little world. This just melts your inhibitions, and-- and you can dance all night. Plus it gives you a raging--Jay: I don't wanna-- I don't like this at all.Mitchell: Just hold on to it. Just in case. Keep it. Come on. It's fine.Gloria: You know, I think I should go home to my loving husband and pull him close and tell him that I danced with 20 men.Jay: He's not home. He's in a dicey neighborhood worried about his car.Gloria: Jay!Jay: What, are we goon kiss or dance?Gloria: Let's dance!Jay: I'm dead set against drugs. "Just say no" and all that stuff. But I thought, just this once for Gloria. And if I was goon make a complete ass of myself, I didn't wanna remember it.Mitchell: The big drug I gave him-- baby aspirin. Orange-flavored. He could have chewed it.#08Phil: There you are. I really need to talk to you.Jay: You really don't.Phil: Jay, please. It's about work. I got a text during your massage. I've been offered a partnership in a new agency. Jay: Oh, good for you.Phil: I am not so sure. I mean, there's--there's a big upside, but I have a stable job right now. I have three kids, and at least one of them's going to college. Worse case scenario, they all go. Jay: Well, what does Claire think?Phil: I haven't told her yet. I wanted to talk to you first. You've done this.Jay: Well, I think that there's only really one question. Phil: Whether I'm ready to run my own company?Jay: Ah, you're great with people. We know you're a good salesman. You've managed to provide a good living in tough times. Phil: Then what? Is this the right time?Jay: Never a perfect time. House could burn down tomorrow. Question is, do you want this? Phil: Yeah. Yeah, I really want it. Jay: Then gamble on yourself. I'd gamble on you.Phil: I'm gonna do it.Jay: There you go.Phil: Thanks, Jay.Jay: If I could only save one possession in a fire, probably my first set of golf clubs. My old man gave 'em to me. Gloria: The engagement ring that Jay gave me that changed my life.Mitchell: Lily's adoption papers.Cam: I was gonna say adoption papers. So I guess, then, I would say y mom's recipe book.Phil: All our family photos... which I keep on my iPad, so my iPad.Claire: As long as I have my family, I wouldn't need anything else.All: Aw, man!Claire: What!Phil: You say something like that, it makes us all seem petty.Claire: Well... I know.All: Hiss!#09Cam: There are dreamers and there are realists in this world. You'd think the dreamers would find the dreamers and the realists would find the realists, but more often than not, the opposite is true. You see, the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. And the realists... well, without the dreamers, they might not ever get off the ground. #10Cam: Jay! Jay! Jay!Jay: You wanna hug me, don't you?Cam: I kind of do.Jay: 4 to 5 seconds.Cam: 45 seconds?Jay: 4 to 5 seconds.Cam: Oh, okay.Gloria: Family is family. Whether it's the one you start out with... the one that you end up with... Or the family that you gain along the way... Which makes every day December 16th.#12Claire: You know, this is your fault.Jay: What?Claire: The way we compete with each other it's-- is sick. It's so sick, two 13-year-olds know how to take advantage of us. And you know what? You made me this way.Jay: How do you figure that?Claire: Dad! You pushed me into sports. You never let me win. You know, that stuff... it does something to a girl.Jay: For your information, you came out of the womb like that. I'm not entirely sure there wasn't a twin in there you bumped off.Claire: If you saw that in me, why didn't you discourage it?Jay: Why would I discourage something that I love?Claire: Really?Jay: You kidding? You're a fighter. The thing I love about you is you never give up.Claire: Dad...Dad.Jay: Even though I clearly designed a superior egg container.Claire: Out of your mind, old man.Jay: Only one way to find out.#17Phil: And that was how they apologized to me. At least, I - I think it was. I could never ask them.#21Manny: They say the important thing in life isn't the destination. It's the journey, the challenges you face along the way... the unexpected twists and turns... the disappointments you overcome. But they're wrong. It's all about the destination, especially when the destination is your amazing oceanfront hotel. #24Gloria: There's certain moments in life that you never forget. Like when I held Manny in my arms for the very first time. I was nervous. I didn't know what I was doing. And I was so excited to see him grow up. And the more he becomes the little man I know today, the more I know I would do it all over again...

三年前面试，面试官反复问我为什么不怕吵架，认为我隐瞒了真实的样子。

作为天生不具备和气生财情商的人，当时我无法理解她的不理解，今天突然明白了。

并不是和所有人吵架都毫无顾忌，我还是害怕和爸妈吵的，可能因为潜意识里觉得吵架就意味着关系的破裂和走向终结。

回头想想，除了工作中的理直气壮据理力争，好像很少和人真正大吵过，有过的那几次，基本都是不可逆的疏远甚至绝交。

咨询师曾问我，是不是不相信爸妈会在乎我超过他们希望我成为的样子，我说是。

我当然知道他们爱我，可是他们会无条件爱我吗？

会最终支持我的任何选择而不是用情感绑架阻止吗？

我不乐观。

所以喜欢Modern Family，因为他们各自的期望总是不同，几乎每集都在争吵，但每集都会说开和好。

再亲密的人也是不同的个体，再趋同的三观也总会有差异，如果彼此相爱，那推心置腹和大吼大叫可能就只是情绪和表达方式的差异，不会轻易动摇彼此相爱的根基 - 虽然我未必喜欢，但我还是会考虑你的感受，支持或者妥协，因为我爱你。

有点理想化，有点戏剧化，有点真实。

亲密关系中大部分磨合的痛苦要么来源于过度要求趋同 - 不能心意相通或坦然接受，内疚于自己不够爱，要么来源于过分要求不同 - 不允许对方不同意否则就是不让做自己，愤怒于对方不够爱。

而人的心理常有不自知或自己都难以理解的微妙，有时忍痛撕掉了贴太久反而对伤口有害的创可贴，才不再执着于为什么，而是慢慢接受亲密的人就是会给予最甜蜜的守护和最痛苦的伤害这个客观事实，然后继续吵吵闹闹地一起生活。

有很多事我还做不到，但我希望终能做到。

想必那时，自己已拥有一直所期望的自信与温柔。

S3E1: 这一季lily换人了！

S3E10: There are dreamers and there are realists in this world. You’d think the dreamers would find the dreamers and the realists would find the realists, but more often than not, the opposite is true. You see, the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. And the realists… well, without the dreamers, they might not ever get off the ground.

7 jay以为自己磕了药陪gloria跳莎莎 为爱的人牺牲自己一下有什么不可以phil在长大以后交到新朋友 交朋友可能没那么困难8 书呆子和万人迷各有各的粉丝而万人迷的粉丝有一天会给书呆子粉丝打工 听到大家火灾时第一样去抢的东西好感动9 有梦想派和现实派 他们纠缠在一起创造奇迹 质疑你爱的人会让那个人很难过10 想不到以为最不支持这个Express Christmas这种稀奇古怪点子的Jay最后给了大家最有爱的礼物 雪 还提出了去吃中餐馆过犹太传统圣诞节 可能是为了弥补Claire和 没有母亲圣诞节的缺失 有家人在每天都是体验圣诞节Dec1611 因为得过的奖和爱的人争风吃醋的 和怕爱人伤心隐藏起各种奖的Cam相比 前者的想法真的很像一个十四岁的小女孩 Dumphy因为在不恰当的时候接到医生的电话 怕自己死掉的小题大做12 Gloria认为家人对她喊生气才是爱（you yell at me because you love me）Luke和Manny利用Jay和Claire竞争完成作业 因为孕妇质疑Cam唱歌 失去了领养孩子的机会13 Cam致命笑点 小孩爆粗口 老人唱饶舌

1：全家旅游，迪兰跟着一起来，克莱尔想友好点但好像不在一个频道talking，向海莉求婚却被妈妈拒绝，在农场打工留下；Alex初吻被坏小子夺走了，四次；莉莉长得好大了，是不是换人了？

都会说话了～又打算领养一个弟弟～2：kill the new baby 莉莉的占有欲举动，是卡爸的过度溺爱所致？

还是米爸的不分享障碍所致？

两个女儿都想要单独房间，让弟弟搬去阁楼睡哈哈哈3：杰让狗上床抱着一起睡都不让曼迪上床哈哈哈；上了年纪对宠物的溺爱，洗澡都一起哈哈哈；歌姐咬鞋子做给狗看，被爷俩看到太尴尬……姐妹同班，成绩和社交的交易内幕被发现，克莱尔手撕停车罚单。

6：大女儿和菲尔去母校提前体验大学生活，另外两个孩子在别人家过夜，克莱尔出去寻欢遇到法国直男；米卡先走开错车，回到原主人家，被其老婆以为出轨砸车；曼迪倒挂金钟想长高，可能这个年纪咖啡喝多了……7：家有疯母，没有困难就制造困难，海莉走回去学了一课；卡找到一个好闺蜜（重返十七岁的母亲）8：卡吃药会梦游装扮小丑🤡哈哈哈；杰被菲尔按摩太爽了，脱口而出“I love u”，以为菲尔误会了，没想到是菲尔接到合伙人创业邀请！

Alex被宅男捧哈哈哈太飒了～9：感恩节的南瓜射10：办砸了圣诞节，但还是很温馨12：父女女三代人的好胜基因13：克莱尔镇议员竞选，果然政治辩论喜欢搞各种私人方面问题；斯黛拉在泳池不会狗刨嘛？

莉莉会爆粗口“F”打头14：菲尔：你可以亲我妻子，但是只有我能和她滚床单和逗她笑！

有两个姐姐的卢克贝蒂娃娃哈哈哈18：克莱尔加了阿黛尔的facebook好友！

19：克莱尔想要一个停车牌就去竞选，果不其然失败了20：卢克的忘年交沃特去世了；海莉在杰家开派对，监护人曼迪，对一个女孩说：张腿先过脑，开窍不开苞（神翻译！

）22：迪士尼乐园，海莉又遇到迪兰了～24：海莉要和迪兰同居，卢克拿出了藏起来大学通知书！

莉莉不愿上台跳舞，杰和曼迪陪着，杰甚至豁出老脸同台，太温馨了米卡的收养，碰上家庭伦理大戏（真的搞不懂为啥非要再领养一个）巧了，歌洛莉亚怀孕了！

惊喜！！！